Tuesday, April 7, 2009

It will not change in One day.

Although, someone is trying to change and hold the heart of the people, but the problem is no one will accept and trust you in just moving a small step. First of all, we should survey what people want, and what people need? A decision maker can't just listen to the surrounding people and make decision like that. Are we very sure that, our surrounding people are telling the truth or just telling something related to them and with some benefit to them. Please ask yourself before taking all the words from them, " is that a emotional or racialism reply?" In a country like Malaysia, we should be very careful especially for the non-Malay when we want to said or request something so that it would not consider as an extremist. But actually some are charge by an extremist.

Not going too far, if we want to know why the people don't support us? ask yourself this question: are you doing the same thing to yourself? Is there any differences between you and me? If you are fare to everybody, there shouldn't be a reason for not supporting you.

Ask yourself, why? what makes you do this? can you do the same things to everybody equally? or at lease not a big different. How you feel, if you need to pay more and your friend is paying less on the same product that you are buying? If I am not mistaken, we are very good friend when I was young, we play together, we study together and we take part of all activities together in school, but we don't like each other after leaving the school because he got better offer than me. Rome does not build in one day, our unsatisfaction does not build up in one day, so don't expect us to forgive you in one day. and don't expect us to give the full support in just one action.

We lost what we have last time, unsatisfaction just build up from time to time, our life getting harder and harder, we are worry of our young generation, about the education, their future. Just take one simple example, true story from me, A friend from SIRIM told me need not apply because they wouldn't take non-Malay, IBM reply me for not a Malay after my graduation. But I still give my helping hand to those needed, today.

We must first understand the root course, find out the side issue and provide a good solution, not a temporary solution but a permenant solution. That solution should not because of needing them to support but a solution of either they support or not. Do it from the bottom of your heart. Take care of them even though they don't support. Explain to them, why you need to do this, don't tell story. Don't wait untill last minutes, People cannot see your faithfullness and sincerity. Don't give up and don't worry of losing something, you are still in control, time will prove your sincerity, they will come back to you.